This is what we hear from most: “There is only a vaginal or clitoral orgasm.” However, this saying is completely wrong and, moreover, stupid. Everyone forgets about the chest, buttocks, arms, earlobes. In this article we will get acquainted with all types of orgasm, their characteristics, as well as the reactions and behavior of girls at the moment of peak pleasure.
What is orgasm2
Before moving on to discussing the classification of orgasms, let's look at the definition. Orgasm is a physical reflex that occurs at the moment of tension of the pelvic floor muscles with strong arousal and is accompanied by dynamic muscle contractions at the end.
According to California obstetrician-gynecologist Sherry Ross, different types of orgasm are felt with their own intensity and duration. It all depends on the phase of excitation and body position. In addition to physical relaxation, orgasm also provides emotional release, which is especially pleasant after a busy day or stress. Therefore, it is extremely important to determine the location of your erogenous zones and exactly what actions give you pleasure.
Treatment
For patients suffering from vaginal relaxation syndrome, intimate plastic surgery is recommended to achieve quick and lasting results. To solve the problem of vaginal weakness, the following methods are used:
- Ablative lifting. The walls of the vagina are treated with a laser beam, under the influence of which the stretched tissues contract.
- Thread lifting. Special threads are implanted into the vaginal tissue along the perineal muscles, which, through mechanical tightening, narrow the lumen of the genital tract. After some time (1-1.5 years), these tissues are absorbed, and their own fibrous fibers are formed instead.
- Contour plastic with fillers. In the area requiring correction, injections are made with a filler drug (usually hyaluronic acid), which restores the anatomical contours of the intimate area.
In particularly difficult situations, colporrhaphy is performed - a full-fledged surgical operation, during which part of the vaginal tissue is excised and the edges of the incision are sutured, which makes it possible to narrow the lumen of the genital tract to the required size.
About conservative therapy
Conservative therapy can be used in the initial stages of SVR, as well as in cases where patients refuse intimate plastic surgery. To restore the tone of the muscular-ligamentous apparatus of the vagina, the following methods are used:
- Electromyostimulation. The perineal muscles are stimulated with an electrical current, which over time leads to their sustained contraction.
- Gymnastics. Regular training of the vaginal muscles using a special system of exercises (for example, Kegel exercises) allows you to restore their tone.
- Hormonal therapy. Indicated for a lack of estrogens involved in the production of collagen, which is responsible for the condition of the vaginal walls.
The disadvantage of conservative treatment of SVR is the low effectiveness in advanced or particularly severe cases, as well as the long course of therapy.
Types of orgasms3
Now we know the relative definition of orgasm. Let's talk about the types and features.
- Clitoral orgasm
The clitoris is perhaps the most sensitive point of the female body. It is considered a life-saving “button” in achieving orgasm during vaginal or anal sex. Depending on the threshold of sensitivity, posture, preferences and type of sex, girls create their own set of clitoral caresses.
The clitoris is the anatomical analogue of the penis, consisting of millions of nerve endings. It, like the penis, swells under the influence of physical stimulation and increases in size. Upon reaching orgasm, it returns to its original form.
Research shows that up-down, right-left, circular and wavy movements have a greater effect on the clitoris. Such techniques are actively used in standard cunnilingus and are considered basic. But this is not a reason to stop. Experiment, discuss variations and sensations with your partner. If you cannot achieve orgasm with your tongue or fingers, then the problem can be solved by using mini vibrators, vibrators with a tongue for the clitoris, or vacuums.
- G – orgasm
Exactly G is located on the anterior wall of the vagina in the first third from the entrance. You can't see it, but you can feel it well. If you insert a finger into the vagina and press on the front wall near the entrance, you can feel the spongy area. This is the sweet spot.
By gently stroking and stimulating the G-spot, the girls prepare to have an orgasm. At the peak of sexual arousal, a large amount of blood flows to the point and it swells slightly. When touched by fingers or the penis, a vibrator, the point is “triggered”, and girls experience an unimaginable, intense orgasm with dynamic contractions of the pelvic floor muscles and cramps in the legs.
- Combined orgasm
If the intensity and duration of an orgasm is important to you, then this type is clearly for you. Combined orgasm is the experience of simultaneous stimulation of several erogenous zones of the body. You can create the following options:
- Stimulation of the G-spot and clitoris.
- Squeezing nipples and caressing with tongue.
- Impact on the point or clitoris and anal penetration with a finger.
- Active stroking of the point and caressing (licking) of the feet.
Some girls experience orgasm when applied to the feet, buttocks, and neck.
- Using all of the above manipulations.
However, this is not the entire list of variations of combined orgasm. Its appearance will depend on the preferences, posture and degree of sensitivity of the girl. The most advantageous poses:
- Missionary (stimulation of the clitoris, nipples, G-spot).
- Girl on top (stimulation of breasts, anus, G-spot).
- Man from behind (stimulation of the clitoris, anus, G-spot).
For convenience, you can use a vibrator or the classic option - with your fingers.
- Anal orgasm
Anal sex cannot be considered habitual or everyday. For some girls this is a pleasant, spicy pleasure, others put it as a taboo. If you fall into the first category, then you need to know a thing or two about anal orgasm.
Considering that the anus and rectum are located quite close to the vagina and are separated by a thin muscle layer (perineum), they have a large number of common nerve endings. When having vaginal sex, you can get anal orgasm and vice versa. If you combine both types of sex and spice it up with clitoral stimulation, the girl will experience an incredible multi-orgasm. In this case, muscle contractions are more intense and longer lasting.
- Deep vaginal orgasm
The G-spot is not the only area in the vagina that can bring pleasure. There is also point A (located on the front wall of the vagina directly below the cervix) and point O (under the cervix on the back wall of the vagina). The ligaments of these zones contain numerous sensory nerve endings. If the penis, fingers or vibrator completely fill the vagina until it touches the cervix, then there is a high probability of receiving special pleasure. Stimulation of the points promotes intense contraction of the uterine muscles and a more powerful orgasm.
- Orgasm - squirt
Let's talk about female ejaculation. At the moment of strong arousal, hard sex, cunnilingus, a moderate to significant amount of clear fluid is released from the glands of the urethra or vagina. Typically, this condition is caused by intense stimulation of the G-spot and caressing the area around the urethra.
It is very difficult to compile a statistical report on obtaining an orgasm - squirting, since many are embarrassed to talk about it or remain silent because they consider it a pathology.
- Cervical orgasm
In the most beautiful films or porn videos, you can see how girls react to fairly deep penetration (caressing the cervix). This zone is also the most sensitive and causes an equally intense orgasm. The already known set serves as stimulants: penis, fingers, vibrator, dildo, sex machines (electronic).
- Nipple orgasm
Breasts and nipples, along with the G-spot and clitoris, are quite strong erogenous zones of a girl. They are rich in sensitive nerve endings and hypersensitive skin. When kissing, sucking, licking or squeezing, the nipples become erect (harden and swell slightly). Nipple caress can be combined with cunnilingus or vaginal penetration.
- Load orgasm
It sounds quite strange, but orgasm from physical activity (coreorgasm) really does occur. Girls enjoy standard exercises: squats, presses, plie, during which intense compression of the perineal muscles occurs. However, some girls may still need clitoral or G-spot stimulation.
- Orgasm in a dream
It's no secret that many people have erotic dreams. If there is a vivid plot and increased sensitivity to intimate caresses, girls are able to experience orgasm in their sleep. This feature is observed between the ages of 30 and 45 years.
Dreams of a sexual nature equally contribute to blood flow to the genitals, achieving orgasm and relaxation. A girl can get pleasure without even waking up.
- Multiple orgasms
Unlike men, women do not have a refractory period. She doesn't need time to recover, so multiple orgasms can be considered a winning round. Once the peak of pleasure is reached, a woman can remain at this level for some time. Long-term stimulation of erogenous zones should be combined with independent muscle contractions. This will increase blood flow and enhance pleasure.
Knowing the types and techniques necessary to achieve orgasm, you can choose your own or combine the ones you like. The language of feelings is easy to master if you systematically practice and speak it. Be attentive to each other and do not forget about experiments.
How orgasms happen
Differences in orgasms between men and women are due to the structure of their bodies. In guys, during sexual discharge, sperm moves (in 90% of cases) and it exits the testes through narrow ducts. During movement, the secretion irritates the nerve endings located on the ducts, which is perceived by the brain as a signal for a strong psycho-emotional release.
The release of sperm occurs in jerks, because its movement is carried out by the contracting smooth muscles of the genital organ. The stronger the release of sperm, the faster the outflow of blood from the penis, the more actively it loses elasticity (decreased erection). Moreover, immediately after ejaculation, a man loses interest in sex, and such apathy lasts from 15 minutes to several hours.
In women, orgasm is also associated with the release of secretory fluid, but its amount is less than in men. The fluid or vaginal lubrication that increases with sexual satisfaction is actually produced by the glands of the cervical canal (cervix). If a woman is aroused, the uterus itself extends deep into the pelvic floor, which allows the length and depth of the vagina to increase. At the same time, she is closer to the penis and receives additional stimulation during the back-and-forth movements of the partner. When intimate intercourse reaches its climax, the muscles of the main reproductive organ contract.
During these contractions, the accumulated fluid is pushed out of the cervix, which is a fairly dense ball of mucus (a plug that slows down the penetration of sperm into the uterine cavity), but it does not leave the vagina, but remains in it, with one end continuing to hold onto the cervical canal.
During these processes, the woman experiences bright and pleasant contractions, forming a kind of vacuum in the uterus, which is perceived by the brain as an orgasm. After the onset of discharge, tension in the organs of the reproductive system decreases and disappears, the cervix closes and its next opening occurs after a new orgasm or with the onset of menstruation.
Other points4
Previously, people thought that the female orgasm did not exist, or that there was only one point through which a woman could experience pleasure.
In fact, it turned out that there are a lot of such points. In addition to A and G, there is another zone called the U point. It is located outside, around the urethra. A man can stimulate her with his tongue, doing cunnilingus. Also, a girl can have an orgasm herself using her hands or a vibrator.
Some sexologists believe that there are actually seventeen types of female orgasm. This assumption may be true, but the point is that a certain percentage of women have never experienced an orgasm in their lives, while others receive pleasure only from clitoral stimulation.
Guys have orgasms
There is a widespread belief that orgasm in men is the release of seminal fluid and ends every sexual intercourse, but this is not so. Like girls, guys feel psycho-emotional release, it depends on the mood towards the partner, the strength of his sexual attraction to her, experience and skill in his beloved’s bed. Not often, but men are able to achieve a physiological orgasm (ejaculation) and at the same time not experience emotional satisfaction from the ejection that occurred. And, like women, they are capable of experiencing different types of orgasms.
Squirt orgasm
This is a classic form of satisfaction, when a physiological process (a stream of seminal fluid leaving the body) and psycho-emotional pleasure are intertwined. Almost 90% of male sexual intercourse ends this way, which gives rise to the opinion that these two phenomena are unified.
Orgasm without ejaculation
A man experiences it at his personal request, because... It is he who makes efforts to ensure that the sperm does not leave the body. To achieve it, long training is required, which you should do on your own in order to surprise your beloved at the right moment.
The technique consists in the ability to stop the process of ejaculate release seconds before the onset of orgasm. This way the man retains secretory fluid, which allows him to recover faster for the “second half”, and receives a vivid psychological release.
Psychological orgasm
Another complex technique that requires long and difficult training. In addition to control over your body, it allows you to comprehend your inner “I”, learn to control feelings and emotions, and manage them.
The idea is that orgasm is achieved through one’s own imagination and only in the head. A man imagines various images and pictures that excite him, an acute desire arises, ending in a violent orgasm. In this case, the release of seminal fluid does not occur.
The practice is very complex and often takes several years to master.
Ejaculation without satisfaction
This is a physiological release that does not entail psycho-emotional satisfaction. Those. The semen is released, but the man does not experience positive emotions from sex.
Psychologists classify such an orgasm as a problem characteristic of married couples. Long years of living together leave their mark on the relationship; spouses “drown” in everyday issues, raising children, work problems, and their intimate life loses color. But it is precisely such male orgasms that can be easily eliminated: it is enough to add variety to the usual relationships and their brightness will return again. All methods are good - from a mistress to buying sex toys or changing your usual environment.
Pollutions
Sexologists are not inclined to attribute this type of ejaculation to the processes of obtaining pleasure, but it is the release of semen, and therefore, from a medical point of view, an orgasm. Wet dreams are characteristic of adolescents during puberty: with the onset of hormonal changes in the boy’s body, sperm synthesis begins, reproductive processes begin to start, which leads to small emissions of semen. They occur at night and disappear as they grow older.
Wet dreams also occur in adult men after the end of puberty, but in this case they are considered a sign of prolonged sexual abstinence. The solution to the problem will be having sex or masturbation.
What you need to know about the female orgasm5
There are many debates on the topic of female pleasure between various specialists, men and women themselves. Interestingly, in ancient times the Chinese believed that during sex, a man gives his energy, and a woman receives it. Therefore, she enjoys the process itself, but rarely reaches the finish line.
After a while, sex became something shameful, and women began to be charged with maintaining chastity until marriage. However, if a girl is completely inexperienced, most likely she will make love only to please a man and will not be able to get real female pleasure because she does not know how to feel her body and does not fully understand it.
It is the male orgasm that plays an important role - when a guy reaches climax, the process stops. At the same time, a woman often needs to make love a little longer to experience pleasure.
It is interesting that the strength of libido may not depend at all on gender. There are men who experience very little desire and women who have great desire.
Features of female orgasm6
Interestingly, women experience pleasure longer than men. their orgasm lasts from 10 to 23 seconds, while men experience pleasure for less time. In addition, a certain percentage of women are able to experience multiple or jet orgasms.
This is explained by physiology. To get a new orgasm, a man needs to recover from sex, while a woman can receive one pleasure after another. In addition, the girls' excitement remains for some time, and the second time it is much easier to bring her to the finish line.
Although a woman can experience multiple orgasms, they are often so subtle that they are classified as “mysterious and inexplicable things.” Most often, ladies begin to receive full pleasure after childbirth or even in adulthood. Throughout their lives, girls only learn to understand their body and give it what it requires.
In sex, a person is not so much a person as a spontaneous phenomenon, or something unconscious. Any worries or fears immediately before the process can seriously harm and also delay the desired pleasure. In order for a girl to receive that unforgettable pleasure that is described in novels, she must be completely calm and relaxed.
Causes of frigidity and anorgasmia in women
Insufficient or absent libido and the inability to obtain sexual release are often diagnosed as frigidity and anorgasmia, respectively. Their most likely causes:
• Hormonal disorders, vitamin deficiency, fatigue;
• Diseases or underdevelopment of the genital organs, consequences of abortions and surgical interventions;
• Painful or violent defloration;
• Incorrect technique of sexual intercourse;
• Pregnancy and lactation;
• Emotional unpreparedness for sexual contact;
• Constant practice of interrupting sexual intercourse;
• Systematic repetition of accelerated ejaculation in a partner;
• Mental trauma due to love;
• Inconsistency of the partner with the ideal, uncertainty in his sincerity;
• Inappropriate conditions that make relaxation difficult.
What reduces arousal
Since women are very sensitive to the situation and react sharply to distractions, in order to avoid sexual disorders it is necessary to exclude the emergence of a situation of tension and fear. You can reduce arousal by:
• Extraneous sounds (phone ringing, neighbors making noise behind the wall, bed creaking);
• Objects that evoke unpleasant memories or associations;
• Incorrect lighting of the room (some people like sex in daylight, while others like it in the soft lighting of a floor lamp);
• Restraining sincere emotions and controlling your body;
• An unjustified desire to seem overly sophisticated in matters of love;
• The routine of each sexual act, the awareness that the partner does not accept anything new;
• Too high demands on a man;
• Thoughts, questions and stories about the former lovers of the desired man.
Vaginal orgasm – myth or reality?7
If by the age of 30 a girl has never experienced full pleasure and climactic release in the process of making love with her partner, she has a question about whether vaginal orgasm really exists.
An interesting opinion was expressed by the famous psychologist Sigmund Freud, who believed that truly adults should experience full sexual pleasure, that is, vaginal orgasm. If it is not there and the girl seeks to please herself with the help of the clitoris, then she can be called infantile.
It has been proven that vaginal orgasm really exists and is experienced by a large number of women, however, getting this pleasure is extremely difficult. Some people begin to fully open themselves only after the birth of a child, when the hormonal background completely changes.
There is another type of vaginal orgasm - myotonic, which is available to more women. To get it, you need to experience extreme arousal and start squeezing your thighs. Since the compression is too strong, the girl quickly experiences pleasure. In comparison with regular sex, achieving release occurs extremely quickly, because the girl squeezes her thighs for a long time, focusing on her sensations.
Some researchers, after conducting tests, have suggested that internal pleasure does not actually exist. They provided data confirming that the lady actually experiences a clitoral orgasm, since the clitoris, in addition to the main part, has two “legs” that go into the vagina. At the moment it is impossible to say with absolute certainty whether this statement is true.
How to get a vaginal orgasm, read in our article further on the link.
Female orgasm and its health benefits
During orgasm, a strong psycho-emotional release occurs. At these moments, a hormonal storm of bliss rages in a woman’s body, which introduces her into an altered state of consciousness. In non-scientific language, pinning is not childish. After orgasmic ecstasy or a series of attacks of sexual pleasure, total relaxation of the body occurs. The tone in the muscles weakens for a while. Chronic muscle spasms that interfere with blood circulation go away. A state of peace and grace ensues. In consciousness, the internal dialogue, which in most cases never shuts up during normal wakefulness, becomes silent for a while. All this has a positive effect on both physical and mental health.
What girls say8
One of the most popular questions on the women's forum is: “How to fake an orgasm without him guessing.”
The overwhelming majority of girls have never experienced sexual pleasure even once in their lives, but in order not to offend or offend their man, many “deceive” him, justifying themselves by saying that this is a white lie.
It’s interesting that the process itself, even without orgasm, gives girls great pleasure, which is why ladies really love having sex. However, it is extremely important for men that she finishes, so girls slightly embellish the reality to prove to their man that everything was perfect.
On the forums you can find messages with the following content:
“I would really like to experience this for myself at least once, but no matter how hard we try, nothing works. I always tell the guy that I came, and he immediately becomes so pleased.”
It’s interesting that almost all guys fall for such words and really don’t understand that in fact the partner did not experience any pleasure. During prolonged sex, girls secrete lubricant, which they present as proof that an orgasm actually occurred.
Men could not make love without release, because for them orgasm is the most desirable thing. Girls focus on the feeling of intimacy, while many experience real pleasure, but do not receive full release.
