When meeting a woman, a man pays attention to her face and figure, but when it comes to intimacy, his gaze drops to the woman’s labia. The tastes of male representatives are very different, therefore, girls with a non-standard shape should not have complexes about this - and for them there will be a man who will go crazy with beauty.
What are the labia?i
Few people realize that female labia can have different sizes, shapes, and even colors. Sometimes men are very surprised to notice that one partner has a neat clitoris and pink labia minora, and the other has brownish skin and slightly hanging labia. Interestingly, both forms can greatly excite men.
Researchers have identified several main classifications of the female labia. First of all, pay attention to the location of the vulva. In accordance with it, a girl can have labia of the “minx”, “English lady” or “queen” type. The dimensions are also determined by the length of the vagina. For female deer it is no more than 12.5 centimeters, for “mares” - up to 17.5, and for “elephants” - up to 25 centimeters.
Parameters such as the location of the clitoris in women, the shape and size of the labia majora and minora, vaginal moisture and compression of the reproductive tube are also determined.
Men who like to spend time watching porn films only know how a beautiful vulva can look externally, but having experienced sexual pleasure with two or three partners, they are surprised at how different the sensations can be during penetration due to the fact that girls’ vaginas can have different length and width. The appearance of the labia is also very different.
Puff pastry - when there is a lot of everything in the intimate area
The shape is similar to Barbie, but the lips are below the pubic bone. From a medical point of view, everything is fine here. The labia majora completely cover the labia minora, providing them with complete protection.
These genitals look, in principle, not bad. However, with age, due to the large volume of tissue, the genitals can sag and lose shape. Therefore, this category of women needs to focus on anti-aging procedures.
Laser rejuvenation of the intimate area
Types2
Every woman has two types of labia – minor and major. Each of them plays an important role and can have a certain shape, size, color. The labia minora cover the man's penis during intercourse; they are practically invisible from the outside, but how dense they are determines whether the man will receive pleasure.
Labia majora are not needed for beauty - they protect the reproductive system from bacteria and foreign objects entering it.
The labia majora is a fold of ordinary skin that can have either a light or dark shade. Depending on the individual anatomical features of a woman, lips can be light or dark brown, even if the skin of the whole body is light in color.
When examining the labia, men notice if they are highly asymmetrical or have an unnatural shade. The labia minora pass into the mucous membrane and vagina.
Like any other organs, the labia may undergo some changes. Possible stretching of the folds of the skin, enlargement of the clitoris and its “overhang,” as well as changes in the shape and edges, as well as the color of the labia, the appearance of wrinkles and pigmentation. Women have a strong complex about this and tend to compare themselves with the standard, and when they find shortcomings, they often think about surgery.
We will tell you interesting facts about what the hymen looks like and where it is located in the article below.
Sexual infantilism: causes
The causes of this disease vary.
Firstly, the reasons may be hereditary or genetic in nature. Before planning the birth of a child, newlyweds should not forget to use the genetic counseling service. Many diseases can be identified in advance, which will allow treatment to begin on time and help a married couple give birth to healthy offspring.
Secondly, sexual infantilism can develop when intrauterine development is disrupted. It has long been known that any violation of this kind of development can lead to mental retardation, underdevelopment of any organs and parts of the body, for example, hands. The organs of the reproductive system in this case are no exception.
Thirdly, insufficient amounts of vitamins in the diet. No matter how strange it may sound, even such a seemingly ordinary thing for the modern world as a lack of vitamins can provoke underdevelopment of the reproductive system. That is why parents of children should monitor how this child eats so that such negative consequences ultimately do not occur.
Fourthly, these are diseases suffered in childhood, such as mumps, measles, rubella, scarlet fever. Also at risk are children and adolescents who have suffered from a chronic form of rheumatism or tonsillitis. Intoxication, disorders of the endocrine system, and thyroid gland can play an unfavorable role.
Fifthly, the psychological factor. The reproductive system begins its full formation in adolescence. When parents overprotect the child and try to appease his natural cravings and interest in the opposite sex and the intimate sphere in general, this can ultimately develop into genital infantilism. Against this background, sexuality will not be formed. Parents ultimately, through their illiterate behavior, lead the child to a terrible disease, which puts an end to him as a man or woman, as well as to the possibility of becoming a parent.
Why the shape can change3
It may come as unexpected news for a man that the female labia change shape throughout life, because the male penis only hangs, but does not become larger or smaller.
Women's labia are very unique and individual, and it is impossible to find two identical ones. However, an experienced gynecologist, when examining a girl, quickly understands which changes are normal and which indicate the development of serious diseases. Even illnesses suffered several years ago can significantly affect the appearance of the genitals, as can injuries.
Most often, changes in the shape of the lips occur for the following reasons: weight gain. Because the labia majora are folds of skin, they become larger as your body fat percentage increases. This situation can be corrected by losing a small amount of kilograms.
Hormonal imbalances in the body are much more serious, and they also affect the color, shape and size of a woman's genitals. Wearing tight, uncomfortable and poor-quality underwear also bears fruit - the skin becomes deformed and darkens.
Frequent masturbation leads to the fact that the clitoris increases in size, but loses its shape, and “hangs” like a pouch between the labia. This really irritates a lot of guys.
Young girls, especially those under 25, often believe that nothing can affect their shape, but incorrectly chosen diets, even aimed at losing weight, can lead to completely unexpected, negative results.
Treatment of vulvitis
If you notice any alarming symptoms, you should immediately consult a doctor. Only a specialist can diagnose the cause and prescribe correct and quick treatment, including a set of measures: relieving inflammation, eliminating factors that are catalysts for the process.
The basis of treatment for vulvitis is the elimination of the causes of the inflammatory process and treatment of concomitant diseases, which may include diabetes mellitus (Diabetes mellītus), gonorrhea (Gonorrhoea), diphtheria (Diphtheria), helminthiasis. After receiving smear test data and checking the sensitivity of the infectious agent, the doctor can prescribe medication, most often antibacterial drugs. Vulvitis responds well to treatment with local remedies, which include all kinds of ointments, gels and suppositories.
In parallel, in the course of treatment of vaginitis, vitamin complexes can be prescribed, including vitamin A to effectively protect the epithelial layer, as well as vitamins E and C, known for their antioxidant properties.
To combat severe symptoms, other drugs may be prescribed:
- Antihistamines that help relieve itching.
- Hormonal, occurring in atrophic vulvitis in the postmenopausal period.
- Anesthetics that relieve pain.
In addition to the medications prescribed by your doctor, you can use Gynocomfort Restoring Gel. This product was created by specialists from the pharmaceutical company VERTEX and underwent clinical trials at the Department of Dermatovenerology with the clinic of the St. Petersburg State Medical University. During testing of the gel, it was proven that it is a very effective additional agent as part of the complex therapy of inflammatory processes of the female genital tract.
As additional therapeutic measures that can be used at home, it is worth mentioning warm baths with herbal infusion.
Chamomile, calendula, string, and comfrey have excellent anti-inflammatory properties.
Baths will help not only reduce inflammation, but also relieve symptoms such as itching, burning and pain.
What to do if they become larger?4
Noticing unpleasant changes in their body, girls panic and begin to think about intimate plastic surgery in order to fix everything. However, you can return, at least partially, to its previous shape by following a few tips.
First of all, you should stop masturbating with the clitoris. If you want to have fun, it is better to use a dildo or vibrator. In addition, daily hygiene is a must.
Sometimes all you need to do is correct your hormonal levels. The gynecologist prescribes antiseptics and antihistamines, after which the skin tightens slightly and the labia look sexy again.
Every woman should know what her genitals look like in normal condition. You shouldn’t go “in there” with a magnifying glass, but it is quite possible to externally evaluate the appearance of the “camel heel”, clitoris and labia majora.
The next thing to do is to throw out tight, staining, and too uncomfortable underwear. The ideal option is panties made of cotton and natural materials. To check the quality, just run a rough piece of paper over the fabric. If traces of paint remain on it, it is better not to buy such underwear.
You can also improve the appearance of your genitals by exercising, watching your diet, having sex with your man, and drinking delicious herbal soothing tea.
An important condition is the presence of a beloved man who is sexually suitable. If during sex a girl experiences pain from penetration, it will not be possible to achieve the ideal appearance of her labia.
It is interesting that men chasing the “virgin” do this not so much in order to make love with a virgin, but so that “there” it is tight and pleasant.
Features and physiology of the female labia5
In general, the physiology of the vagina is the same for all women; the differences relate only to the shape, size, length and width, as well as the color of the genital organs. Some girls have a longer and narrower vagina, while others have a wider one.
The appearance of the labia can be influenced by a variety of factors, including: body weight, pregnancy and trauma, ethnic predisposition to a certain shape and genetics, as well as previous diseases, the development of a girl in the womb, age and hormonal status. In addition, in some cultures, girls are circumcised, which significantly affects the appearance of the genitals.
The labia majora serve as protection against the penetration of bacteria, and the labia minora surround the entrance to the vagina. At the back they are fastened with soldering. In 80% of cases, the shape and size of the vagina are determined by genetics and the characteristics of the girl’s uterine development. In a normal state, a healthy woman's vaginal size ranges between 6 and 10 centimeters.
If a woman has suffered a difficult birth or infectious diseases, the size may decrease, and the labia slightly lose their shape.
Interestingly, Italian, French and Greek women have narrow and very short labia. Also, a neat form is observed in Georgian, Spanish, and German women. The other side of the coin is the narrow vaginas and large labia that distinguish women from the American and African continents.
Experts have identified a classification of the labia according to several criteria: thickness and length, symmetry, pigmentation, size of the vaginal opening, the presence of uneven edges and hypertrophy.
Standard in terms of aesthetics6
In ordinary photographs in magazines you will not find a vagina so that they can be compared, however, today there are various porn films in wide access, and men, watching different videos, identify for themselves certain specific sizes that arouse sexual desire.
Many representatives of the stronger sex note that they consider vaginas with small labia of a neat shape and pinkish color to be the most beautiful, aesthetic and sexy.
Some even define a beautiful shape as “like a butterfly.”
There are several criteria by which the beauty and aesthetics of the appearance of the labia are determined: the invisibility of the lips when looking at a woman from behind, they should not “hang”, neat, pinkish mucous membrane without plaque, a closed entrance to the vagina in a non-excited state, the absence of a “hole”.
The ideal is a symmetrical arrangement, small folds, small lips located inside the large ones, as well as slight extensibility. Men like it when the clitoris is hidden between the woman's labia, or only its tip is visible. Abnormal pigmentation and the presence of large brown spots deter men.
What kinds of vaginas there are, read in our article further on the link.
How to fix everything?7
Women who are very unhappy with their shape sometimes decide to undergo plastic surgery, however, this is not the only method. Before going to the clinic, you should change your underwear a couple of months before the chosen date, visit a gynecologist, and also stop satisfying yourself with your fingers, massaging the clitoris.
In almost all cases, this is enough for the labia to take on a beautiful shape.
You should decide on such procedures only if there are significant indications, for example, after childbirth, or in the presence of congenital defects.
Curtains - when you can see what you would like to hide
With this form of genitalia, the labia minora peek out between the labia majora. This form turned out to be the most common, and not everyone likes it. For women, radical surgery is recommended - labiaplasty. The surgeon will trim the small lips, which will forever hide under the large lips.
Even “classical” gynecologists are against strongly protruding inner labia. They recommend labiaplasty because hanging genital tissues are constantly injured. This structure provokes inflammatory processes, and women often have difficulty choosing underwear and clothing.
Photo 1. Labiaplasty of the labia minora. Before and after
Photo 2. Labiaplasty of the labia minora. Before and after
These patients are lucky, since medicine can solve the problem quite easily and get rid of it forever. Surgery to reduce the labia minora is performed under anesthesia, does not cause pain, and women recover fairly quickly after it.
What do men say?8
Representatives of the stronger sex on forums describe the ideal form, not at all shy about expressions. All descriptions are very similar. For men, the ideal shape is: “A neat appearance, without hair, small labia of a pinkish color, and a neat clitoris, slightly peeking out between the folds.”
Someone gives a more capacious and concise definition: “Like Barbie.”
However, not all men are chasing unattainable standards of beauty; many, on the contrary, like large labia, but of a beautiful shape, not sagging. In sexual games, a man plays with a woman’s organ, slapping it with his penis and receiving incredible pleasure from this.
Women, when reading such descriptions, are often horrified, because they know what the real picture looks like and do not know how to get closer to the notorious “standard”.
Some women give men the following answers: “In any adult woman, the labia change shape, at least slightly, but they certainly cannot look as perfect as in porn films.”
